To some the first thing they see when they look at me is the colour of my skin. To others its my gender, my big smile or my charm-or lack of it. To those who hear me speak I'm an employee, a tax payer, a son, a friend, an ex, a heterosexual, a sapiosexual, a … Continue reading The Identity Crisis – In Crisis
Have your Cake and Eat it
Why should I give up my greatest, and fondest desires to satisfy your sense of moral uprightness and 'objectivity'? Why should you give up your needs to satisfy the desires of others? Why should I suppress my own beliefs just because everyone else believes differently? Why should you live a compartmentalised life because your friends … Continue reading Have your Cake and Eat it
Tired of Love?
-Committing feels hard -Communication becomes non-existent -Feelings grow cold -Tender memories, and fun & games seem old -Old wounds feel fresh -Thoughts you of you with me, of me are low.... An audible voice, an audition of voices amid a plateau of emotions. What does this say about you, or better yet me? Am I … Continue reading Tired of Love?
Behind the Mask
What do you see when you look in the mirror? - The successful businessperson? - The budding artist? - The conservative clergyman? - The enlightened guru? - The strong-silent type? - The lone wolf? - The Social Justice Warrior? - The fashionista? - The wise cracking asshole? These and many more labels are common amongst … Continue reading Behind the Mask